The ´traditional´ stereotype of men was very different sixty years ago, where a bar of soap and a cut throat razor were the men´s two main grooming aids. This however, has not always been the case. Sound familiar? In these times of image obsession and hunger for instant fame, the pressure is on everyone (women) and men to look like an extra from a J-Lo video. He was obviously gay, so I didn´t even ask if he was single.´ Recently, one of my good friends was talking about a man she had seen in a bar.´ He was beautiful, perfect.